Etiquette

This is Etiquette

It might seem like a lot at first, but most of it is just common sense. Mistakes happen, but as long as you follow directions, you’ll be fine. And if you’re ever unsure about something, don’t hesitate to ask questions.

 

Introductions:

When you’re ready to book a visit, you have two options:

Option A: Fill out my booking request form and follow up with a text (preferred) or email to let me know you’ve submitted it.

Option B: Text or email me directly. Please include the following in your initial message:

  • -Name

  • -TNA board handle (or Tryst, P411 etc.), and send me a PM for verification

  • -Desired date and time

  • -Length of visit

  • -VIP or non-VIP

  • -Incall or Outcall (if outcall, specify location: hotel or residence)

  • – Contact info for any references and anything else I should know. Note: Certain specifics will be discussed only after screening.

A brief yet thoughtful introduction makes a great first impression.

 

Screening For First-Time Clients:

There are various screening methods before we meet. Rest assured, any information you provide is promptly deleted after our visit. Privacy and discretion are top priorities. NDA forms are welcome if they make you feel more comfortable.

-I will need a recent selfie along with either an ID pic (you can block out your address) or a 20% deposit via CashApp ($kittyiskatya). If you prefer Venmo or Zelle, let me know. PayPal is not accepted.

-References and LinkedIn profiles are also considered.

 

Deposits and Cancellation Fees: 

  • -Communicate if you’re running late and please do not show up early.

  • -A 20% deposit is usually required for bookings of 2 hours or more and/or most outcalls more than 20 miles outside Tacoma.

  • If you need to cancel, please do so ASAP.

  • -if you are a new client and have already sent a deposit, then you will not need to send another one. 

Cancellation Policy:

  • -For last-minute cancellations, up to 100% of the donation amount will be requested and no refunds will be given. 

  • -12-hours notice: No cancellation fee; any deposit can be applied to a rescheduled session.

  • -24-hours notice: No cancellation fee; deposit fully refunded.

  • -If I need to cancel, I will offer a future discount to make it up to you.

 

Hygiene Practices:

It is of the utmost importance that your  hygiene is excellent when you come to see me, or any provider. If you’re unable to shower beforehand, my shower is always available for you to use when you arrive. I am fully stocked with any other supplies you might need. 

Beyond showering, I ask that your fingernails have been trimmed with no jagged edges left behind and if possible, trimming pubic hair as much as possible is something I appreciate very much. 

For backdoor-related hygiene, pegging and fisting in particular, the following link is very educational! 

–How To Clean Your Ass!–

Misc. Info:

  • Plenty of paid parking spots available (app: Flowbird

  • Secured parking from 6 pm to midnight for $25. Let me know if needed.

  • Text me upon arrival, and I’ll provide the call box number. Once buzzed in, I’ll send my apartment number.

 

Menu:

This is a very personal and intimate service, so I don’t typically provide specific menu items. However, I will say a couple VIP activities I enjoy discussing most include kissing, worshiping, D/s and sometimes role-playing. 

Non-VIP: Feels like time with a professional, mainly discussing physical activities, minimal connectivity.

VIP: Feels like time with a girlfriend or close companion, discussing both physical activities and an emotional connections.

 

Kink Limits:

Communicate any limits or boundaries beforehand. My own limits include:

  • -No Sounding, BBFS, Brown/Scat play

  • -I only play the role of submissive in extremely rare cases with individuals who I know very well.